Vocation and Call - Whose will?
Personal Discipleship June 12th, 2008The subject of Vocation, or Call, has generated some very good reflections in the comments over the last week or so. I find it a bit difficult to respond to comments that are almost as long as the post (if not longer), since there’s so many rabbit trails to go down! :) Therefore, I propose an alternative solution: I’ll try posting more on vocation and call and deal with as specific a topic in each post as I can manage. Then, we can generate genuine discussion through rather briefer comments.
Now, that said…
One of the issues that seems to be the most pointed in the comments is the question of discernment: how do we differentiate our will from God’s? If we desire to do something, is this a desire from God, “from the flesh”, or somehow a mixture of the two?
When our will is the primary factor, experience tells me that we will pursue something even while doors are closing to the pursuit one after the other. All the while, the open door (often one we don’t necessarily desire) stands open, until we, either crowded back toward the open door by all the other closures, or finally letting our will submit to God’s, end up going through the door that was open in the first place. For me, one of the best examples was the pursuit of Graduate School until I finally submitted to the call to pastoral leadership in a local congregation.
In the meantime, the frustrations mount that the ends we are pursuing do not turn out as we like. We may even try to dive in to the wrong thing just to get the tension over with. (Yeah, tried that, too.) In the end, though, as we start listening to God, we begin to discover (if we allow it) what it is inside us that drives us in such a stubborn direction. And it’s rarely on the surface. And it’s often rather difficult to disclose to others, if not impossible. And yet God heals it as we pursue what he really desires.
By contrast, when God’s will is dominant, it’s much more like a learning experience. God’s will and his purpose may not be clear - any more than algebra may be or have been for us. Ultimately, though, like higher math, if we are willing to discover and learn, the will and the purpose becomes clearer and the applications start to make sense. In such a learning experience, there will be trial and error. Sometimes we will have to work backward to the point where we messed something up (such as a vain attempt to divide by zero) and re-work the whole issue. We will discover as we grow that there is more we didn’t know, and become content with what God is doing.
Usually, need or pain triggers one response; faith based in the goodness of God, the other. And we tend to mix the two, don’t we? I painted as stark a contrast as I could for emphasis.
What sorts of discernment issues grow out of this contrast?
June 13th, 2008 at 9:12:47 (-0500)
What a beautiful response! Thank you for writing this.
When I recently ignored the call of God because it was uncomfortable and inconvenient, He simply clobbered me with dreams, unsatisfying prayer time (because I kept resisting him), and words of knowledge from at least four people.
Finally, I prayed that the Lord’s will would be done in my life (and actually meant it). I stopped whining and arguing with him, and voila! Here I am.
Sadly, I was on some dangerous ground. I let hurts and wounds lead me toward outright disobedience to God himself. But even as I type this, I’m healing. It feels wonderful!
My focus has shifted; my egocentric view of things has changed. I’m discovering that it’s possible to move in ministry through my own pain/frustration. That sounds like common sense as I read my own words, but I had to learn how to do that.
This is longer than I expected, so don’t worry about responding to any of it. I know you’re busy!
Thank you for being a pastor who speaks the truth and for making me face some things I didn’t think I could handle. Thank you for making sure I stay in the will of God. I was irritated because you weren’t allowing me to do something I desperately wanted to do at the time. Although you are the most polite person I know, you still have a way of pushing buttons, but you have to, don’t you? That’s part of YOUR call as pastor; you’re responsible for caring for this particular flock at this particular time.
Be encouraged, Pastor Matt! I have a long, long way to go, but I’m going to keep trying to improve daily. I think many folks are showing signs of growth at FBC. I’m excited to see what’s going to happen next! God bless!
July 15th, 2008 at 17:01:02 (-0500)
I believe the point here, and one that I am personally coming to as well, is that it is better to sit in the uncertainty until the open door is clear and know that you are moving as God would want you to move than to rush ahead into the unknown trying to make what you want to accomplish become God’s will. Patience is a fruit of the Spirit. Perhaps in the waiting I will learn more than I could have in the doing.